http://soisedlood.soolane.com/tags/emolicious/ Recent content in Emolicious on Soised Lood Hugo -- gohugo.io en-us Sun, 16 Feb 2014 19:52:21 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/16/16-paev/ Sun, 16 Feb 2014 19:52:21 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/16/16-paev/ Imagine that someone has decided to write a book about your life, just up to this point. What would the cover blurb say? Be honest here. Is it kind of boring? Are you happy with it? Now imagine what you’d like that blurb to say at the end of your life. What changes need to made for that to happen? Oh, miks, ei. Aga ok, praegu ja pärast: http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/12/12-paev/ Wed, 12 Feb 2014 21:39:41 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/12/12-paev/ Give stream-of-consciousness writing a try. This is where you basically just write out whatever comes into your head at the moment it comes into your head. It can feel bizarre, and it’s certainly not structured, but it can lead to some valuable insights into what’s going on in your mind. I’ll give you a 10-second example from right now, while looking out my window: “Boy, I have a nice-looking grill outside and the weather is beautiful…just what we need after all this cold and snow. http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/11/11-paev/ Tue, 11 Feb 2014 16:56:06 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/11/11-paev/ [_Memento mori_](http://www.artofmanliness.com/2011/03/20/what-man-understands-that-he-is-dying-daily-this-is-your-life/). “Remember that you will die.” Admittedly, this isn’t the most pleasant topic. There is, however, great benefit in meditating on the reality that at some point, you will in fact die. It motivates you to live the life right now that you want to be living. Meditate on this, and write out your thoughts. Does death scare you? Does it motivate you? It’s okay to be honest. http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/09/9-paev-paev/ Sun, 09 Feb 2014 15:52:42 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/09/9-paev-paev/ Terve kuradi ennelõuna mässasin ühe (ÜHE) valemiga. Ma pidin seda andmetega sobitama, aga miskipärast sain väga imelikke tulemusi. Lasin oma praksikaaslasel ka see valem tuletada, sai sama. Ma arvan, et Maple lihtsalt võttis kätte ja hakkas nussima, aga ma ei tea. Olin vihane, kell oli juba pool kaksteist, aeg oli söögiks. [gallery type=“square” ids=“344,345”] Õnneks oli tänaseks bolognese otsas, tegin karri-kalkuni-kastet ja riisi. Kuna mul väga palju asju polnud, juust oli ka hapu, ning pood kinni, surusin mõned pähklid laiaks ja praadisin koos kanaga. http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/06/6-paev/ Thu, 06 Feb 2014 20:55:26 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/06/6-paev/ Enne, kui karmi kraami juurde lähen, announcement: tuleb välja, et klementiin on mandariini ja apelsini värdsugutis. Müsteerium lahendatud. Jätkan endisel lainel: Pick a quote from our [80-ish quotes on manhood](http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/09/09/quotes-about-manliness/) and reflect on why it stands out to you. Does it reflect a man that you aren’t yet, but hope to be? Does one of them remind you of a great man in your life who you’ve tried to model? If you can’t seem to reflect on a single quote, just take the time to write out a few of them that you like. http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/03/3-paev/ Mon, 03 Feb 2014 20:05:18 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/03/3-paev/ Natuke eilsest memuaarist. Ma ei kavatsenud selle tagamõtet tegelikult lahti seletada, aga noh, igaks juhuks. Eks ma olen kõiges ise süüdi. Esiteks “ise”: vihje minu egoismile ja nartsissismikalduvustele, aga ka sellele, et ma pole vist kunagi teistele milleski lootma jäänud (üldiselt, vist). Resigneeruv toon: mu elu tundub tagantjärgi väga loogiline, pole olnud suuremaid üllatusi, vähe põnevust (mis pole halb). “Süüdi”: esiteks hale huumori-üritus (mis ongi minu moodi, kui mõelda), aga ka väikese tõeteraga: igal asjal on olnud tagajärjed ja eks seda ole näha. http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/02/2-paev/ Sun, 02 Feb 2014 17:07:01 +0000 http://soisedlood.soolane.com/2014/02/02/2-paev/ Nii, jätkan siis selle programmiga, kui juba alustatud sai. Continuing to work within that idea of constraints, try to write [a 6-word memoir](http://www.smithmag.net/sixwordbook/about/) of your life so far. This idea is rumored to have originated from Papa Hemingway. The benefit is that with only six words, you really have to filter your life to what you deem most important. It may take you many iterations, but you’ll end up with something that speaks largely to who you are, if not _in toto_, then at least in this moment in time.